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I have had four host families during four years of my life in America. Every year was a new beginning. I had to meet new people and give them a wary hug in the airport.

 

 

 

 

 

I had to learn their new rules, memorize new phone numbers, and be another member of their family. Even though they accepted me with amiable warmth, I still felt like a guest to them, since I had not been a part of their prior lives as a family. I soon noticed the emotional gap between the host families and me.

 

I got over this hurdle. I am still learning, but at least, I know how to shrink the gap between my host families and me. How did I deal with it? Honesty. I approached them first and showed my understanding of their hardship, “Thank you for accepting me into your family. I know that you might feel awkward because we have had different lives, but I am ready and willing to be a part of your family. I really am.” These three short sentences have helped change my situation tremendously. Since I am willing to openly address a usually taboo topic, my host family and I can develop a deeper understanding of one another and form a more lasting relationship. We can fit into each other’s lives.

 

Now, when my host parents introduce themselves they say, “We have three children: Owen, Lucy and Hoonji.” Yes, I am truly a part of their family.

 

 

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